Saturday, March 31, 2012

BTW, I don't cook, clean or have a career.

Raise your hand if you think you're wifey material. I'm sure every female will raise her hand and have a prepared list of why she's wifey material. More than half will be wrong.

Ever since I could remember I've always dreamt of being married with kids. I picture myself having a huge white house with a lot of land. Thinking about it now puts a smile on my face. However being a wife is hard work. A lot of my ways now would have to change. My space would constantly be shared with my husband and any ounce of selfishness could cause an argument. For example, I love to sleep and get very cranky when my sleep is interrupted. So I'm def not perfect! I do however inform my partner about my flaws and give him a warning. I don't think he wants to experience "Nicole's wrath".

The things that I believe makes a good wife are:

-A god fearing woman
-A loyal woman
-A woman who cooks for her man everyday.
-A woman who keeps the house clean.
-A woman who keeps herself looking nice
-A woman that can please her man in the bedroom
-A woman who's supportive of her husband.
-A woman who's vocal about her thoughts
-A honest woman
-A woman who can compromise
-A woman who has a career or is productive in someway
-A woman who has patience

These are just a few qualities that come to mind, however it also depends on who your partner is and what they like. If you're trying to be the best wife that you can be best believe your husband should be making sure your happiness is number one at all times.

In your opinion, what does a good wife have to possess?

"Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave."
Martin Luther

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

If you're tired of breast feeding, get rid of the baby!

Are you in love with a grown boy? Not sure?

Signs that you're dealing with a grown boy:
  • He always seems to mention a family crisis only when he's in the dog house? (hoping that you will feel sorry for him).
  • He makes you feel bad when you did nothing wrong.
  • He shows low confidence and doesn't know his self-worth.
  • He doesn't know what he wants in life or in a relationship.
Now if you read the signs above and it rings true for the person you're dealing with well then you are dealing with a grown boy who's main tactic is to play victim. RUN FOR THE HILLS!! This guy doesn't have any potential, and is holding you back. If you put up with this, it's your own fault. Nobody will feel sorry for you. Stop wasting your time, go find yourself a sexy MAN who can actually give you something in return, and give the grown boy back to his momma.

Have you ever dealt with a grown man boy? I have, and it was so draining!!

Boys will be boys, and so will a lot of middle-aged men.  ~Frank McKinney "Kin" Hubbard