Saturday, March 31, 2012

BTW, I don't cook, clean or have a career.

Raise your hand if you think you're wifey material. I'm sure every female will raise her hand and have a prepared list of why she's wifey material. More than half will be wrong.

Ever since I could remember I've always dreamt of being married with kids. I picture myself having a huge white house with a lot of land. Thinking about it now puts a smile on my face. However being a wife is hard work. A lot of my ways now would have to change. My space would constantly be shared with my husband and any ounce of selfishness could cause an argument. For example, I love to sleep and get very cranky when my sleep is interrupted. So I'm def not perfect! I do however inform my partner about my flaws and give him a warning. I don't think he wants to experience "Nicole's wrath".

The things that I believe makes a good wife are:

-A god fearing woman
-A loyal woman
-A woman who cooks for her man everyday.
-A woman who keeps the house clean.
-A woman who keeps herself looking nice
-A woman that can please her man in the bedroom
-A woman who's supportive of her husband.
-A woman who's vocal about her thoughts
-A honest woman
-A woman who can compromise
-A woman who has a career or is productive in someway
-A woman who has patience

These are just a few qualities that come to mind, however it also depends on who your partner is and what they like. If you're trying to be the best wife that you can be best believe your husband should be making sure your happiness is number one at all times.

In your opinion, what does a good wife have to possess?

"Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave."
Martin Luther

2 comments:

Julene said...

Great article. But I definitely believe in a man being able to cook AND clean also. No reason for me to do all the work at home, plus have a career. Compromise, and equality is the key!

NikkiB said...

Absolutely! Compromise is def key. A real woman will express to her husband what it takes to make her happy and if he’s a real man he’ll comply. Splitting the household chores with her husband may make one female happy, while being a house wife and having her husband in charge of bringing home the bacon may make another female happy. It all depends on the individual.
As for me, I don’t mind cleaning but best believe my future husband betta satisfied my taste buds